Feiry lookback.!?!

On a beautiful monsoon evening when the rains have left the city paralyzed, thoughts provoked me to look back and this was due to the pensive mood and chilling wind. Looking back at my years and the past few weeks in my old new office there was something very clear and that is, life is all about making choices... right from sipping a coffee and relishing the aroma of the bean once off from the bed early in the morning to choosing a mindset in approaching aspects of life (Includes food, clothing, travel and the biggest factor friends) .

There used to be times when i wondered what was less in me and i chose to make mistakes thinking i will beat the odds, guess what was the outcome rejection and agony and i prolonged this agony for a brief period, not that i wanted to! But i was wanting to challenge the way world works. I met quite a few interesting people in the past few weeks and i learnt that days of looking at a person by heart is gone by. Today people ply around with a simple thought that (I need to be safe) , definition of concern has become need basis people like u or don't like u is on the same principal. I would not say it is hatred rather it's a choice!!

After the learning that i have had during the past three years of which i have been mentioning in the last few posts, the outcome is simple never hate, never regret from expressing what's on your mind and not to give a false picture about a situation or perspective.The world that we today live in is based on not long lasting relationships, exceptions are there everywhere... Being dignified and carrying oneself on his/her shoulder is wrongly understood to carrying an attitude or an ego, anything that comes in between this line witnesses devastating consequences.

Am happy that am in the process of learning to make myself a better person. Life is once and prefer living it in a manner where i have not hurt anyone, where i have shut my eyes on injustice, where i have not put my hand for the needy (because everyone deserves to lead a (happy) life). People think this attitude is not aggressive enough to be a successful manager.

I face fear by confronting it because whenever i tried to hide my self because of fear or tried to avoid it ,it always came back to hit me badly, so i started facing it by standing in front of it like a dam which can halt the speed of gushing water and act as a reservoir as well. Fear is nothing but your perception to see the world around you.

All philosophy lies in two words, sustain and abstain.

First learn the meaning of what you say, and then speak. All religions must be tolerated… for every man must get to heaven in his own way. Freedom is the right to live as we wish.
it’s not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters.Freedom is not procured by a full enjoyment of what is desired, but by controlling the desire. Is freedom anything else than the right to live as we wish? Try Answering..

Good Decisions Don't Make Life Easy